New Moon Reading: For My Friend “A”

A tarot card spread in the celtic cross style
Deck: Green Witch

What truth or hidden influence is shaping this new cycle beneath the surface?

This new moon opens with the Wheel of Fortune at the center ,  fortune turning, circumstances shifting, the reminder that nothing stays fixed. But here’s what’s hiding beneath that constant motion: the King of Cups sitting as the problem. Not an external obstacle, but the way emotional mastery has become a trap. They’ve gotten so good at holding space for others, at managing feelings with maturity and grace, that they’ve forgotten how to actually want something for themselves. The hidden influence shaping this cycle is the exhaustion of always being the stable one, the mature one, the one who can handle whatever comes.

Consciously, they’re reaching for the Chariot, trying to drive forward with determination, trying to make things happen through sheer will and direction. But unconsciously, the Page of Wands reveals something else entirely: a spark of curiosity, of playfulness, of wanting to explore just because something’s interesting instead of because it’s strategic or mature. This split between what they think they should be doing (moving forward with purpose) and what’s actually alive underneath (wanting to try things without a plan) is the real work of this cycle.

The past holds the Six of Wands, success, recognition, the public acknowledgment of achievement. That energy has passed, and in its wake comes the question: now what? The Nine of Cups waits in the future as wish fulfillment, emotional satisfaction, getting what they actually want. But between here and there sits the Hanged Man as internal influence, suggesting that the path to satisfaction requires suspension, surrender, seeing things from an entirely different angle. Externally, Temperance shows up asking for balance, integration, the slow work of alchemizing opposites into something new.

The Queen of Cups lives in hopes and fears, that tender, intuitive, emotionally open energy that they both long for and dread. They want to be that emotionally available, that connected to their own feelings and others’. But they’re terrified of what it might cost, of the vulnerability required, of losing the control that the King of Cups mastery gave them. The outcome, Nine of Pentacles, promises self-sufficiency and abundance, but the kind that’s earned through authenticity rather than performance, through actually enjoying what they’ve built instead of just maintaining it.

What’s gestating in this dark moon is permission to stop being so goddamn responsible all the time. The hidden truth is that their emotional maturity (King of Cups) has become a cage as much as a gift, that the success they achieved (Six of Wands) came at the cost of their own spontaneity (Page of Wands), and that the fortune turning (Wheel) is inviting them into a completely different relationship with desire, satisfaction, and what it means to actually have what they want. This cycle asks them to surrender the need to control their own emotions and others’, to let the Page explore without justification, and to trust that real abundance (Nine of Pentacles) comes from being authentically themselves rather than impeccably managed.

Shadow & Illumination Advice:

The shadow territory this cycle involves using emotional management as avoidance, staying so busy holding space for others that there’s no room to feel their own needs. Watch for the pattern of performing maturity (King of Cups) while suppressing the playful curiosity that wants to emerge (Page of Wands), or using the Chariot’s determination to barrel through situations that actually require the Hanged Man’s pause. There’s also the risk of treating the Queen of Cups energy as weakness rather than recognizing it as the vulnerability required for real connection. The tightest shadow point is confusing emotional control with emotional health, or believing that if they just manage everything perfectly enough, they won’t have to actually want anything risky or uncertain.

The illumination comes through recognizing that the Wheel of Fortune’s turning isn’t something to control but something to ride. The Page of Wands isn’t asking them to abandon their maturity, just to let curiosity lead sometimes without needing to justify it with outcomes. Temperance reminds them that integration isn’t about choosing between responsibility and play, between King and Page, it’s about letting both exist. The Nine of Pentacles as outcome suggests that real self-sufficiency comes from honoring what they actually enjoy, from building a life that satisfies them instead of just one that looks impressive. This cycle wants them to let the Hanged Man suspend their need to drive everything forward (Chariot) long enough to discover what they actually want (Nine of Cups), and to trust that emotional openness (Queen of Cups) is strength, not surrender.


The tarot card, the Wheel of Fortune
Deck: Light Seer

Wheel of Fortune ~ Self / Current Situation

Archetype: The Changer ~ The part of them experiencing constant motion, shifting circumstances, the reminder that nothing stays the same.

Keywords: Change • Cycles • Fate

Meaning: This is where they are right now, in the middle of fortune turning, circumstances shifting, the constant motion of life refusing to stay fixed. The Wheel as self reveals they’re at a turning point whether they chose it or not, and the hidden influence is about how they respond to change they can’t control.

Journal Prompt: What’s changing in my life right now that I can’t control, and what would it mean to work with that change instead of against it?


The tarot card, the King of Cups
Deck: Celtic Tarot

King of Cups ~ The Problem / Challenge

Archetype: The Compassionate Leader ~ The part of them that holds emotional complexity with maturity, that manages feelings for themselves and others with grace.

Keywords: Mastery • Compassion • Control

Meaning: The problem isn’t lack of emotional intelligence, it’s that they’ve gotten so good at emotional management that it’s become a trap. The King of Cups as challenge shows that their capacity to hold space has turned into an obligation, and they’ve forgotten how to want something just for themselves without managing everyone else’s feelings about it first.

Journal Prompt: Where has my emotional maturity become a burden instead of a gift, and what would it mean to let others carry their own feelings for once?


The tarot card, The Chariot
Deck: Rider Waite Smith

The Chariot ~ Conscious Awareness

Archetype: The Driver ~ The part of them determined to move forward, to make things happen through will and direction.

Keywords: Determination • Will • Direction

Meaning: Consciously, they’re trying to drive forward, to take charge, to make progress, to get somewhere specific. The Chariot here shows they’re aware they need to move, but there’s a question underneath: is this direction authentic or just another way to stay in control?

Journal Prompt: What am I trying to drive toward right now, and is that direction genuinely mine or just what feels safe?


The tarot card, the Page of Wands
Deck: Green Witch

Page of Wands ~ Unconscious Influence

Archetype: The Explorer ~ The part of them curious, eager, willing to try things without needing them to make perfect sense.

Keywords: Curiosity • Exploration • Enthusiasm

Meaning: Underneath all that conscious determination, there’s a Page wanting to play, to explore, to try things just because they’re interesting, to follow enthusiasm without needing to justify it with outcomes. This energy is gestating in the dark, waiting for permission to emerge.

Journal Prompt: What am I genuinely curious about that I’ve been dismissing as impractical or immature?


The tarot card the Six of Wands
Deck: Tarot of the Cloister

Six of Wands ~ The Past / What’s Passing

Archetype: The Victor ~ The part of them that achieved recognition, that earned public acknowledgment, that succeeded.

Keywords: Success • Recognition • Achievement

Meaning: This energy of external validation and public success is in the past now. The Six of Wands shows they’ve already proven themselves, already achieved what they set out to do. What’s passing is the need to keep performing that success or the identity built around it.

Journal Prompt: What success or achievement am I still performing even though it’s already passed, and what would it cost me to let it go?


The tarot card the Nine of Cups
Deck: Everyday Witch

Nine of Cups ~ The Near Future / What’s Approaching

Archetype: The Satisfied ~ The part of them that gets what they actually want, that experiences emotional fulfillment, that feels content.

Keywords: Satisfaction • Wishes • Contentment

Meaning: What’s coming is genuine satisfaction, not just achievement or recognition, but getting what they actually want for themselves. The Nine of Cups suggests that if they can navigate this cycle with honesty, wish fulfillment is available. The question is whether they know what they actually wish for anymore.

Journal Prompt: If I could have anything I genuinely wanted without needing to justify or manage it, what would I wish for?


The Tarot Card the Hanged Man
Deck: Light Seer

The Hanged Man ~ Internal Influences / Their Inner World

Archetype: The Suspended ~ The part of them that surrenders forward motion to gain new perspective, that sees from an inverted angle.

Keywords: Suspension • Surrender • Perspective

Meaning: Internally, they’re being asked to pause, to suspend the need to drive forward (Chariot), to see things from a completely different angle. The Hanged Man here suggests that the path to satisfaction (Nine of Cups) requires letting go of control and trusting a perspective shift they can’t force.

Journal Prompt: What would I see differently if I stopped trying to control the outcome and just let things be what they are?


The tarot card Temperance
Deck: Celtic Tarot

Temperance ~ External Influences / The World Around Them

Archetype: The Alchemist ~ The part of them that integrates opposites, that creates balance through patient mixing, that transforms through moderation.

Keywords: Balance • Integration • Alchemy

Meaning: Externally, the world is asking for integration, for balancing the King’s maturity with the Page’s curiosity, the Chariot’s determination with the Hanged Man’s suspension. Temperance shows that the path forward isn’t choosing one energy over another but alchemizing them into something new.

Journal Prompt: What two seemingly opposite needs or energies in my life could be integrated rather than chosen between?


The tarot card, the Queen of Cups
Deck: Green Witch

Queen of Cups ~ Hopes and Fears

Archetype: The Empath ~ The part of them tender, intuitive, emotionally open and deeply connected to feeling.

Keywords: Intuition • Compassion • Vulnerability

Meaning: They both want and fear this energy, the emotional openness, the tender vulnerability, the capacity to feel deeply without managing it all. The Queen of Cups represents what they long for (genuine emotional connection) and what terrifies them (losing control over their feelings and being that exposed).

Journal Prompt: What am I afraid will happen if I let myself be as emotionally open and tender as I actually want to be?


The Tarot card the Nine of Pentacles
Deck: Mythic Tarot Modern

Nine of Pentacles ~ Outcome / Potential Resolution

Archetype: The Self-Sufficient ~ The part of them abundant, independent, enjoying what they’ve built through their own efforts.

Keywords: Abundance • Independence • Enjoyment

Meaning: The outcome of this cycle is self-sufficiency and abundance, but the kind earned through authenticity rather than performance. The Nine of Pentacles suggests that when they honor what they actually want (Nine of Cups) and integrate all their parts (Temperance), they build something genuinely satisfying that they can actually enjoy instead of just maintain.

Journal Prompt: What would abundance look like if it was built on what I actually enjoy rather than what I think I should achieve?


Guiding Incantation:

I release the need to manage everything, I trust the turning
My curiosity is wisdom, my vulnerability is strength
I integrate what seemed opposite, I honor what I actually want
This cycle, I build abundance through authenticity


Their Reaction:

Screenshot of their reacation.

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